Hey Wait! Whom are you trying to impress! Be yourself … true
relations are always effortless!
Last evening
was really good ! Because I think I found myself back ! I always say the worst
you can do to yourself is getting influenced by something and someone which
makes you lose your identity. But then I guess I had myself gotten influenced
by Hyderbad city and some people I found here which had dragged me away from my
own true self.
Fortunately
I always stayed away from the so called “rat race” during my entire student life!
I agree I have been an over-enthusiastic scholar! But then that has been my
nature, the little nerdy variety of candidates with spectacles on their eyes
and with schedule in their hand, but luckily with no interest in others doing
the same. I have had my own set of goals, my own set of regulations, my own set
of definitions for work and fun. And trust me I have been happy! I don’t know
what made me follow the crowd in the city of Hyderabad! May be a sense of
loneliness which needed company and constantly echoed ““live like romans in Rome”,
or maybe a sense of insecurity which said “adapt to them or be cornered out” ...I realize I have tried to build good
relations with all the efforts from my side. . . did what so ever I could for
them but with no reciprocation ! I have tried to put in the best of efforts at
my work... Worked like a commercial contrary to my true nature! But then again with
no appreciation. It would not be wrong if I say I was used up in both personal
and professional aspects and why? Simple.. Because I allowed myself to be used
up.
But
whatsoever it has been I am glad I went through this phase to realize there are
only a handful of people in this big fat world who will like you and be with
you for what you are ! I believe everyone has an individuality and the least we
can do for ourselves is to protect it. Count and see, with how many people can
you be truly yourselves, how many relations are effortless and productive in
your life, how many people are there for you when you really need them. I am so
sure your count will not even exceed your ten fingers. Consider yourselves
lucky to have those handful of people in your life, put all the efforts you can
for those who really deserve it. I don’t see a need for Impressing the rest. True
relations are effortless, don’t kill yourself and loose your true self for
being with the rest… happiness and positivity will automatically follow. Be happy
with the handful of people who truly care about your existence! Don’t allow the
others to simply crowd up in your mind at least! Life is too short, be
yourself!
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